In week three of the Relationship Replay series, Pastor Jeremiah tackles the gap between expectations and experience in relationships and the pivotal choice everyone faces in that gap: believe the best or assume the worst. Anchoring in 1 Corinthians 13, he makes the case that love is not an emotion but a verb, measured not by knowledge or sacrifice but by how we treat people daily. He takes particular aim at the habit of keeping score in relationships, arguing that replaying others' mistakes only deepens resentment and poisons love. At the end of the day, your happiness or dissatisfaction in any relationship is your own choice.